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有人惹你生氣了?深呼一口氣,學(xué)學(xué)高情商回答吧!
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文章轉(zhuǎn)載自 21英語微商城 21世紀(jì)英文報(bào)
有人把你激怒了,該怎么應(yīng)對(duì)?
千萬不要打回去……
這些智慧的表達(dá)方式可以幫到你
(難道這就是“高情商”?)
Using the power of words
Our language is a powerful tool. But, instead of criticizing people, it pays to use our words wisely. These tips can help:
我們的語言是一個(gè)強(qiáng)大的工具。但是,與其用它批評(píng)或嘲諷別人,不如更聰明地使用我們的語言。看看下面的建議吧:
For example, if someone got upset with you, what would you say back? These remarks might work: “I know you’re upset, but calm down and we’ll talk.” “You’re pushing all my buttons. I take offence at (對(duì)......生氣) some of your language.” “We’re both adults here. Let’s not act crazy toward each other.”
舉個(gè)例子:如果有人沖你發(fā)火,你會(huì)怎么回應(yīng)他?這句話可能有用:“我知道你很生氣,但不如冷靜一下,我們談?wù)勗趺礃樱?rdquo;、“你讓我生氣了,我對(duì)你的一些表達(dá)不太滿意。”、“我們都是成年人了,不如冷靜一點(diǎn)處理問題。”
The point is that you want to speak up for yourself. But you don’t want to ignite an explosion (激起怒火). State your feelings in a mature way. Intelligent language steers (引導(dǎo)) us toward good outcomes.
重點(diǎn)是你想表達(dá)自己的想法,但并不想激怒對(duì)方,那不如用更成熟的語句表達(dá)你的感受。聰明的語言表讓我們的生活更美好。